Fear of Public Speaking, technically known as Glossophobia. . . is one of the greatest impediments to career & social mobility in the modern world...
Through the collective wisdom of our friends we are here to guide you through fact and through fiction, what works and what doesn't, all with the understanding that each individual is different and that there is no 'one size fits all' remedy. It's time to conquer your fear and to realize that you are not alone. Fear of public speaking can be conquered but it takes work. Oratory skills are not born and speaking fear is normal. Most people who are scared to death of speaking generally tend to be the best public speakers! We encourage you to start your healing by sharing your story with us describing your social anxiety.
We are pleased to publish on Speakfreaks the great works of Ramki. His spiritual guide to public speaking will uplift you and give you strength and a rational outlook on this overblown fear. He has inspired many readers though his simple approach. From tips on how to start a speech, to having great self confidence and mannerisms, Ramki will teach you that making speech is simply an 'enlarged conversation'. Revisit Ramki's guide each time you need to increase your confidence and internal fortitude.
We have also assembled nearly 300 related books and audio downloads now available in our bookstore. We have a newly launched SpeakEasy Forum, a place where you can ask anything you want with anonymity. Then of course you can always take a Speech Pill...
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Speech Anxiety is believed to be the single most common phobia affecting as much as 75% of the population, and as you have probably already heard, the fear is ranked higher than death! The word glossophobia comes from the Greek glōssa, meaning tongue, and phobos, fear or dread.
Speaking phobia rests in the unknown and can not be resolved unless you take on a deep understanding of its cause. Once you have a crisp understanding of why the symptoms occur, you can begin the process of taking control and reclaiming your life.
If you can learn to understand the elements of public speaking phobia, often also referred to as 'stage fright', you will quickly understand that the feeling of having an 'alien' inside your body is a sensation that many of us have once or many times experienced. With the right thinking and training, you will be able to re-channel your fear into a very energetic and exciting presentation.
Anyone who tells you they have little or no fear is either lying, or just loves to hear themselves talk. Without any anxiety at all about your upcoming presentation it's almost guaranteed you will give a dull performance, since those same chemicals racing through your body which are causing your heart pound and your palms to sweat will also heighten your awareness and make your thinking sharper, so long as you project the energy outwardly and not inwardly such that they cause the unnecessary reaction.
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With the aggregate wisdom and experience of our readers, we seek to separate the good from the bad, the fact from the fiction. Our collective voices will give us courage, nurture, educate and heal, as well as bring together the best practices of the public speaking universe all to one place. Your participation on our forums and your comments on articles is the very key building our community and we encourage you to be an active participant.
Start living your life again by reading through the articles below. There is a great deal of content both from professional public speakers to our readers who have submitted stories of their speaking challenges.
If you find yourself brave enough to share your experience, please use our reader submit form to (anonymously) let us know more about what you have experienced and what you hope to accomplish on the road to self healing.
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English is my second language, i am currently in college seeking a degree in graphic design, almost in all my classes i have to present my work, so i have to get up and speak about it. Every time i get up to speak i get the stressful butterflies and anxiety , the first reason why i get like this is because i am scared to death to speak in front of people, but i have learned to control that (sort of), but now to add to that fear my accent (which is not as bad as other public speakers i heard before) keeps popping in my head while i talk, so i feel like the audience is going to talk about it or laugh at me, so i tend to speak rapidly and i begin to sweat and shake, so if any one have had this experience before and can give me a few tips and advices i would gladly appreciated it.. thanks for reading... writing this its actully making me feel better! :silly: